Be your Best Friend!

Though I keep boosting myself towards affirmations and optimism always, there is an unhidden fact that no human can be strong throughout his life. However strong you may appear; there are situations, people, habits, assumptions that could weaken you at times & make you feel vulnerable for a very long period of time. And this is troublesome, isn’t it…Once your weakness or may be a bad phase sticks to you for a longer span, your weakness pours into your heart and mind, making you feel bad about why are you so vulnerable & why do you feel so incapable to handle such a situation or a person or a habit or may be a thought. So then and there your weakness is no longer that situation or that person or that habit but it is you, “Yourself”.

Unless you act on your thoughts & sort them you won’t feel at ease. But this itself is the toughest task. So how do we deal with it? Learn to control your thoughts. Learn to conquer your fears. Empower your weaknesses. And the only way to conquer your fear is to face it, stay with it & smash it. I assure you; day by day your fear will deplete & vanish.

My experience taught me to stay independent emotionally. There is only one person in your life that is 100% trustworthy & would be available till your last breath. She is none other than “YOU”. That doesn’t mean people surrounding you are useless & selfish, but they can just be your listeners or advisors. They would feel sorry for you and would try to cheer you up always but trust me nobody can be available to sympathize with you forever & ever, as there is a huge heap of problems already lying in their own plate. 

It is YOU who have to keep yourself alive. YOU have to think high about yourself. Flowing thoughts need to be controlled & diverted to constructive purposes. Invest all your positive energy in actions that would benefit you & would stay with you forever like exercising, developing some hobby, enhancing your qualification, meditation, and there are many more. Focus on your strengths, focus on your goals. Situations would come & go, people would come & go but YOU would be permanent. So boost yourself always, heal yourself & believe me YOU would be your own Best Friend.